Out Of The Way Thinking
Posted on 02. Sep, 2010 by Ken Bechtel in The Goo Blog
By Guest Blogger – Nicole Irlbeck – Restoration Fitness – Boulder, Colorado
What inspires you?
You know those days where you feel like you are headed in the right direction, and everything you are doing feels like what you were meant to do?
Then again, why do we spend so many days feeling like we are in a fog, just going through the motions? Did you ever stop to think that the reason you are feeling dull, uninspired, or less than successful is because you are in your own way? (more…)
People Are Driving Me Crazy!
Posted on 25. May, 2010 by Ken Bechtel in The Goo Blog
It feels like I have no patients anymore. I seem to be frustrated and angry at everyone. Seriously! It seems like everyone I meet, no not really the folks I meet and speak with, more the people I encounter driving, riding my bike, walking down the sidewalk, in the aisle at the store. Yeah, those non-descript knuckleheads are the people that are driving me nuts.
It is like nothing they do is right. They are moving too slow or blocking my way or making dumb decisions. How inconsiderate can these people be? I feel like I am in a world filled with idiots. (more…)
The Creek
Posted on 17. May, 2010 by Ken Bechtel in The Goo Blog
I was working beside Boulder Creek today.  Being around the creek on one of the first warm days of Spring is always so much fun. People walking, running and biking on the creek path, tubers floating by, dogs playing in the water. I love it.
And I was reminded that the water doesn’t care what you do with it. It just keeps rolling on.
A duck swam by and showed its ability in allowing the water to support it and take what it is given as it masterfully negotiated the rapids. The big golden retriever just down stream from me takes a different approach as he bounds into the water in pursuit of the latest stick it has fallen totally in love with. Though he does not have the grace of the duck he still finds a way to enjoy the rushing water. (more…)
No Such Thing As Unhappierness
Posted on 29. Apr, 2010 by Ken Bechtel in The Goo Blog
I have set the intention to be honest with myself about my next steps in business and life. Everything from creating new products and that they will have value, to not drinking alcohol and eating better. Things are changing. But not really. I am just letting the true me come forward. It surprises me at times.
I am not sure what my diet will end up consisting of, but it is clearly shifting. I am a little worried about how it will appear to others. Again pre-judging others for me. I think eating consciously and not drinking alcohol will look all woo woo and superior and that others will not like me for it or not be able to relate to me, but that is just fear. (more…)
Hello Misery, let me see when I can fit you in my schedule
Posted on 20. Mar, 2010 by Ken Bechtel in The Goo Blog
I was just talking with a friend of mine who was having a hard time due to an old boyfriend who was back in town.
She was going through the standard mental gyrations of : What if I run into him? What will I say? I don’t want to get involved with him again.? Etc. She was miserable.
As the conversation continued, she said something that I found profound. She said, “ I am really busy right now with work, I don’t have time for this.†(more…)
Taking the day off
Posted on 18. Mar, 2010 by Ken Bechtel in The Goo Blog
I decided to take the day off and go play in the mountains yesterday. I was so excited to go play that I did not sleep well the night before. All the ideas and plans for how I would make the most of the day were rifling through my head.
I woke early to make the most of the Spring sunshine and found myself so tired I had to lay back down. So much for plan number one of starting early.
Once I finally woke up and got the day started I decided to head to a local hot springs for a soak. I booked an hour in a private bath figuring that would be a good prelude to an early afternoon of hiking or snow shoeing in the mountains. (more…)
Taking a Break From Frustration
Posted on 10. Mar, 2010 by Ken Bechtel in The Goo Blog
Have you ever had one of those days where you felt like you weren’t getting anything accomplished? I do. In fact I had one of those days yesterday.
I wanted to get things done. In fact there were lots of things I wanted to accomplish yesterday, but I couldn’t seem to make headway on any of them.
The harder I tried, the more frustrated I became. So, naturally, I tried harder. I was going to push my way through this and get something done. (more…)
Blah, blah, blah…
Posted on 03. Mar, 2010 by Ken Bechtel in The Goo Blog
Have you ever been in a conversation or at a presentation and all you heard was, “blah, blah, blah…blah, blah…blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.â€Â It was like you were listening to the teacher’s voice in one of those Charlie Brown cartoons. What do you think when you hear this? Is it annoying? Insulting? A waste of your time?
This blah, blah, blah is often what we hear when we are not being present. So it is not that the speaker is annoying you or insulting you or wasting your time. YOU ARE! (more…)
“Can’t Never Did Anything.”
Posted on 28. Feb, 2010 by Ken Bechtel in The Goo Blog
When I was growing up, anytime I told my Dad that I can’t do something, he would reply, “can’t never did anything.â€Â And as annoying as that was to hear I knew he was right.
Think about it. Name one thing that has ever been attributed to “can’t.â€
The Wright brothers had a bicycle shop. Why were they the first ones who succeeded in developing motorized flight? It certainly was not because they told themselves we can’t. They did not ask why are we qualified to pursue this? They just asked how to do it and kept going until they found the answer.
It is said that Thomas Edison failed over 1,000 times before he discovered the incandescent light bulb. He had over 1,000 opportunities to say “I can’t†but he didn’t because “can’t never did anything.†(more…)
Ho’oponopono Rocks!
Posted on 24. Feb, 2010 by Ken Bechtel in The Goo Blog
So here I was in the middle of a past-life meltdown. Â Beating myself up for what I had done in a particular past life. (it was not pretty) Â And sitting in victimhood. Â Believing I could not possibly be released and forgiven having done such a horrible thing. Â (let’s just say there were more than a few deaths that I had a fairly direct roll in during this particular past-life)
My friend Claudia suggested I do Ho’oponopono to forgive myself and release this limiting energy. Â Here is what she told me: (more…)